Thursday, 30 January 2014

Wisdom for RELATIONSHIPS...


People who dont naturally KNOW how to relate well cos they have been exposed to relational dysfunction somewhere or they are just plainly arrogant to learn, hence devise evil their heart to that effect will  MOST
likely have ISSUES in their marraige.

OFFENCES will come, 
hurts will seep in,
 people will sow seeds of discord & ISSUES will DEFINITELY happen.

But... What I have learnt is this:
Dont keep malice, seat on the hurt or to yourself cos you were hurt, you guys shuld JAW it out. its berra to have a shouting reunion on ur bed without the children hearing than seating on the issues like a keg on gunpowder. But.. when she cries during the discussion (Hold her) and let it just end there for then if she cant talk about it at that moment and most guys will stomp out or flare up, so watch those tones plus choose your tones well...
--- Lets TREAT ISSUES & not Frustrate our spouses.

NB: I think "WE" men can be too too arrogant, WE should LOVE our SPOUSE as CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH & GAVE HIMSELF FOR HER...
--I think I wanna stick to this jare,  I LIKE BEING MARRIED & REMAINING MARRIED for ever (Its a Covenant)

STAY & REMAIN.MARRIED Inspite of...
NB: But when a life is being threatened to be taken & evidences show same in a Marraige den I think the person whose life is in danger needs a breather (seek PROFESSIONAL HELP FAST) Dont Pray Alone...
pleaseee.

Lets limit the 'discuss' here pls & leave other relational dynamics to another day except if you have a question.
LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE KEEPING MALICE OR SLEEPING ON THE COUCH I. THE LIVING ROOM.
Find a way to end the issues,
maybe you should hide your spouse's belongings in your wardrobe to provoke healthy gist or stick up notes around the house for them
Laughing Out Louddddsddddddddd.....

Addendum:
Oh & eemm the next time you see a leader or other positional leaders display wild relational & anti-social tendencies pls know that its not the 'religious ' affiliations that made them do so but it might be a generic relational dysfunction / relational affiliations etc...

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